I’m a 36 year old guy that has been living with premature ejaculation for all of my adult life. If I remember rightly I started masturbating at around the age of 12 and like most horny young boys must have done it most days with no problem, in fact it would take me for ever to cum which at the time was probably a pain as all you wanted at that age was to experience the amazing feelings of orgasm
I then through friends discovered pornography and became quite addicted really…I would watch porn films with mates with a raging hard on (pillow on lap to hide the obvious) then get home and masturbate like mad and cum quicker and quicker
Looking back I remember if I masturbated without porn I could last a while but if I was watching a porn film or looking at a mag it would be over in seconds. As I got older I realised this could be a problem if I was to sleep with a girl, I had chances in my late teens to fool around with girls but always made excuses and never bothered
I was 21 when I actually lost my virginity and to be honest the sex wasn’t that bad (well for me). I’d met a girl in a night club and was full of confidence due to the amount of alcohol i’d shoved down my neck, My parents were away on holiday so I had the house to myself and she agreed to come back, It didn’t begin well (i passed out) but in the early hours of the morning I awoke with an erection and we went for it (how romantic eh), we must have been at it for about 20 minutes before I actually came and remember the euphoria of thinking YESSSSSS i’ve finally done it and I was hot!!!!
My second time was a few months later outside a nightclub which was not so memorable, a quick fumble and it was over in about 5 minutes
I then got my first (proper) girlfriend, we had been dating for a couple of months before we decided to sleep together then disaster struck..I was so turned on I came while putting a condom on and thats where things started to go downhill for me!
Another disaster was with a new girlfriend, we went on holiday together and the first time we tried to have sex I ejaculated as I was just about to enter her…I was with her for around 3 years and we probably had good sex a couple of times the rest of the time it would only last a couple of minutes if I was lucky!
I cant begin to tell you the amount of sex I have turned down while out clubbing with mates etc as I knew what was going to happen
I’ve now been with my wife for 6 years and to be honest things haven’t got much better…I find I can last a bit longer if I’ve had a fair bit to drink but who wants to be drunk all the time to enjoy sex?
Thankfully she has always been VERY understanding but I can imagine how frustrating it must be for her, I always make sure I bring her to orgasm in other ways but I know she must be desperate for (sorry for the following description) a good hard shag!
I’ve tried various lotions and potions with varying success but I will tell you about them in another post
I’d like to hear your stories to see if they’re similar to my own situation
sorry if I went on a bit
I then through friends discovered pornography and became quite addicted really…I would watch porn films with mates with a raging hard on (pillow on lap to hide the obvious) then get home and masturbate like mad and cum quicker and quicker
Looking back I remember if I masturbated without porn I could last a while but if I was watching a porn film or looking at a mag it would be over in seconds. As I got older I realised this could be a problem if I was to sleep with a girl, I had chances in my late teens to fool around with girls but always made excuses and never bothered
I was 21 when I actually lost my virginity and to be honest the sex wasn’t that bad (well for me). I’d met a girl in a night club and was full of confidence due to the amount of alcohol i’d shoved down my neck, My parents were away on holiday so I had the house to myself and she agreed to come back, It didn’t begin well (i passed out) but in the early hours of the morning I awoke with an erection and we went for it (how romantic eh), we must have been at it for about 20 minutes before I actually came and remember the euphoria of thinking YESSSSSS i’ve finally done it and I was hot!!!!
My second time was a few months later outside a nightclub which was not so memorable, a quick fumble and it was over in about 5 minutes
I then got my first (proper) girlfriend, we had been dating for a couple of months before we decided to sleep together then disaster struck..I was so turned on I came while putting a condom on and thats where things started to go downhill for me!
Another disaster was with a new girlfriend, we went on holiday together and the first time we tried to have sex I ejaculated as I was just about to enter her…I was with her for around 3 years and we probably had good sex a couple of times the rest of the time it would only last a couple of minutes if I was lucky!
I cant begin to tell you the amount of sex I have turned down while out clubbing with mates etc as I knew what was going to happen
I’ve now been with my wife for 6 years and to be honest things haven’t got much better…I find I can last a bit longer if I’ve had a fair bit to drink but who wants to be drunk all the time to enjoy sex?
Thankfully she has always been VERY understanding but I can imagine how frustrating it must be for her, I always make sure I bring her to orgasm in other ways but I know she must be desperate for (sorry for the following description) a good hard shag!
I’ve tried various lotions and potions with varying success but I will tell you about them in another post
I’d like to hear your stories to see if they’re similar to my own situation
sorry if I went on a bit
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