Saturday, 16 April 2011

Premature Ejaculation Fetish

I was trawling through various PE forums the other day when I spotted an article with the title Premature Ejaculation Fetish
This is the first time I have come across this topic (no pun intended)
From the amounts of posts from women on the forum it does seem that this phenomenon does actually exist
After reading a few comments it appears that its a turn on for certain women to make men cum early as they believe its a kind of compliment that they have got the guy so turned on that he pops his cork very quickly
Bloody hell if this were true i'd be a living legend!!!

I understand the womens point of view and that maybe its some sort of power thing too but surely women in a relationship wouldn't want this to happen
Please let me know if you're a woman or guy who is into this fetish i'd love to hear your point of view to try and understand it more
And guys does your partner enjoy this and how do you feel about it?


  1. Hi, I guess I am guilty as charged. Yes, I have an interest in this fetish. No, I don't really have a PE problem (I am a guy), though I was a bit quick when I was younger, and it could still happen now with the right women. Why the fetish?
    I can't speak for others, but to be honest about it, I think it is a latent Femdom fetish tendency. PE allows a woman full control over the male. He can't control his ejaculation, she does. I find that a bit exciting. I think other guys into this also like the idea of a woman getting them so worked up they can't control themselves. For some women, the same idea is true, they like the control. Other women just like the idea they are so hot a guy can't hold it. I can understand that. Think about it. If you are a woman / girl, would you rather have a guy get so excited about you he cums too soon or a guy not turned on by you who won't cum at all. I have been on both sides of this issue, and it is no fun being with a woman who does not turn me on!

    That being said, I want you to know that I (and I hope others sharing this fetish) hold no disrespect or lack of understanding toward your situation. PE is devastating for many men. Yet, I think what is really needed is a better understanding of the male-female sexual relationship. I think guys are more focused on mechanics (how long does it take me to cum? how big is my cock? how many times can I cum?) rather than the intimacy that makes up true love. I had problems with PE when I was younger, and never did my girlfriends give me a hard time about it. Partly because I was able to get it up again after ~ 30 min and then go for several hours, partly because I spent so much time stimulating them either manually or orally, but mostly because they liked me, which is why they would even let me have sex with them. They weren't obsessed with the sex mechanics the way guys are. There are many ways to please a woman, and sometimes we need to think beyond the obvious.
    Yes, there are all the PE solution programs and treatments out there, and you seem to be well aware of them. I am not an expert in treatment, but here are some of my thoughts on dealing with the problem: use lubrication, if I had known this years ago, I would never had PE. Use a standard KY or personal lube to make things slide easier. Try a desensitizing cream or gel. That may help too. Condoms may help, but honestly, they are unnatural, whereas PE is a natural occurrence. The best thing is to be open with your partner and say you are very excitable (especially with attractive women!) and you may have problems with extended penetration. My experience is that women who really like you will understand. If you are a sexually oriented person, you should be able to do oral or manual stimulation on her to be sure she climaxes. Toys are also helpful. The biggest obstacle is our own minds. We create negative situations and outcomes in our minds that directly affect our behaviors, most of which are totally unnecessary. (e.g. How long should we last with a woman? 5 min, 10 min, 30 min, 2 hrs? Most guys are lucky if they can go 10 min. Look into this if you don't believe me.) If we are more open with ourselves and others, we can achieve great solutions to problems. It's late and I'm rambling on a bit, but my last question is if you can recover after cumming too soon? Can you go twice in an evening (say over 1 - 2 hr)? If you cum fast the first time, can you go longer the second time? While you are recovering, you can do oral on her or other things to keep her stimulated. I wish you good luck, and hope you understand a little bit more about people with some fetish interests on this topic. We mean no disrespect.

  2. I do see the point where this fetish is coming from. But in a relationship if the man consistently ejaculate early then after times, the sex relationship in between the couple will definitely be affected.

  3. Beating Premature Ejaculation is actually all in the mind.

    Mental control... believe it or not, the thoughts running through your head during sex make a huge difference to how long you can last. With a little guidance, you'll learn how to focus on the good stuff and still last way longer than you can now.

    Last Longer in Bed

  4. It is a mental game! To delay ejaculation you need to control your thoughts. It is extremely effective and may cause frustration to those ladies with a premature ejaculation fetish! Check out more at where guys can learn how to actually decide when they want to come! And yes the mind plays a big part in this!

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